Say No To Premarital Sex
We live in a generation where sex and immorality is the order of the day.
Sexual Purity
Princess Janet
We live in a generation where sex and immorality is the order of the day. Sex is promoted and advertised everyday directly or indirectly, we have channels like BBNAIJA airing on the TV which promotes moral decadence and sexual immorality. Even the advertisement of ordinary toothpaste indirectly promotes sex with the revealing clothes they will wear. But because everyone is having sex before marriage doesn't make it right.
 They say majority carries the vote, but that is not the case here, as a Christian you need to be different and stand out for God. Ephesians 5:3  Sex was created by God to be enjoyed only in marriage; it is a form of intimacy for married couples. Engagement doesn’t equate to marriage, that he said he loves you doesn’t mean you are married, that he promised to marry you doesn't equate to marriage.

You are not married until he has paid your dowry, and he has taken you to the altar and both of you are declared Husband and wife. Premarital sex and extra marital sex are not just sins against God but sins against your body, against your spouse (if you are married) and future spouse (if you are unmarried) 1Corinthian 6:15,18-20.  

Though God created sex for a good reason, the devil is now using sex as a tool to destroy many souls and condemning them to hell. Revelation 21:8  God's plan for us is to be virgins till we get married irrespective of whether you are a man or woman. Though there is no physical proof of a male virginity, but you can't deceive God, he knows those who are pure sexually, he knows those who are obedient to his word. The consequences of premarital sex cannot be overemphasized.

 They include abortion (you become a murderer), HIV/AIDS, and other STD, death (both physical and spiritual), lost destiny and glory (remember the story of Samson), and so on.
Many are not even scared of pregnancy or STD anymore, since we have condoms that can prevent it. But you should be scared of another type of STD (Sexually Transmitted Demons), this type of STD cannot be prevented by condoms. Ladies you are more valuable than diamond and rubies, so stop selling your body for money and material things. 

It doesn't matter if you have the beauty of Esther, or the leadership skills of Deborah, plus the dedication spirit of Ruth, if you lack the discipline of Virgin Mary, your destiny will be destroyed like that of Dinah.  Young men, your sperms are far too valuable to be deposited in a wrong vessel or to be flushed down the toilet. Even though there is no proof of your virginity, God wrote Proverb 5:3-5, 6:27-29, 32-33, 7:26-27 just for you.

 Fornication is a sin for all, you young men are not left out. It doesn't matter if you are as faithful as Abraham, as wise and rich as Solomon, as devoted to God's work as Moses, and as prayerful as Elijah, if you lack the discipline of Joseph you will not live to fulfill your destiny like Samson. 

 It is not too late to come to  Jesus my brethren. Jesus is still in the business of washing away your sin, he doesn't care how terrible your past is, and just come as you are and he will make you a brand new person. Invite Jesus into your life today, ask him to come and be your lord and personal savior. 

Now that you have accepted Jesus, this is the right time to make that covenant of sexual purity with God, whether you have fallen into premarital sex or you are still a Virgin, just tell God right now "I refuse to have sex before marriage, I will wait till it is right, give me your grace to be sexually pure oh lord".

Congratulations ladies and gentlemen welcome to a new life of sexual purity. Now that you have made up your mind to be sexually pure, you need to know how to avoid falling into temptations of premarital sex again.  Fill your heart with God's word daily; develop a close relationship with God. Joshua 1:8

Cut ties with your former boyfriend/girlfriend, and don't be involved in ungodly relationships again. Don't visit the opposite sex alone, if you must visit an opposite sex for a good reason, make sure you don't go alone and don't go at night. 

Stop wearing provocative dresses that can make you become victim of rape, or make others fall into temptation. Matthew 5:28, Proverb 7:10  Avoid the likes of kissing, smooching and other romance, they are meant to be enjoyed in marriage alone. Proverb5:18-19, 1Thessalonian 5:22 Stop watching pornography; instead fill your heart with God's word.

 For whatever you watch is what will fill your heart, and from your heart comes immorality and all evil ways. Mark 7:21-23, Psalm 119:37 Make friends with people of like minds, people who have the same belief of sexual purity like you; they will encourage you and help you stand firm.1Corinthian 15:33  In conclusion, Sex is sweet, but it will sting you if you taste it at the wrong time.

 Wait till you are married brothers and sisters, nobody has ever died because they didn’t have sex, but many are dead and in hell today because of premarital sex. 
 
Shalom!!!
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Princess Janet
Princess Janet is an aspiring marriage counselor, relationship coach, inspirational writer, story writer, blogger, teacher of the word of God, a petroleum geoscientist by profession, a researcher and lecturer in one of the foremost institution in Nigeria. She is also the author of the novel called Jasmine that have inspired many people across the country.
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