Que Sera Sera
Que Sera Sera
Modesty
Princess Janet
What will be will not be unless you make it be. Some people believe that what will be will be no matter what and because of this they develop a nonchalant attitude towards life.  

Talking about relationships, many believe that a relationship will work out no matter what  they do or don't do.  Whether they communicate for a week or not, what will be will be.  Whether they cheat on their spouse or not, what will be will be.  

Whether they love their wife or not, what will be will be.  Whether they submit to their husband or not what will play be will be.  And once a relationship fails or a marriage collapses they console themselves by saying it wasn't God's will for them to be in the relationship and that is why it failed.  

Some even think that "what will be will be" is a form of faith, forgetting that faith without God is dead. Saying what will be will be is just like waking up in the morning and going into your kitchen and you keep chorusing' what will be will be' with the hope and faith that breakfast will spring up from nowhere or fall down from heaven..

When hunger finish you no one will tell you to prepare the food yourself God is not a magician neither is he in support of nonchalant and lazy bum.  
In everything you do, you need to try your very best and hand over the rest to God.  Believing that what will be will be with without making any effort is arrant nonsense. 

 Many relationships that was ordained by God failed before they could even walk down the aisle because they believed that what will be will be.  So put all your efforts in that relationship  Put all your efforts in your marriage  Put all your efforts in your studies and business  And after you have put your best effort, entrust the rest to God and have faith.

Shalom!

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Princess Janet
Princess Janet is an aspiring marriage counselor, relationship coach, inspirational writer, story writer, blogger, teacher of the word of God, a petroleum geoscientist by profession, a researcher and lecturer in one of the foremost institution in Nigeria. She is also the author of the novel called Jasmine that have inspired many people across the country.
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