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Princess Janet
Dear sisters  If you are still among those who think marriage is all about putting your financial burden on the man without having any source of income of your own, you need deliverance.

You still think success can be sexually/ martially transmitted, please receive sense today. You still  think your husband should be your automated teller machine (ATM), please bend down and let me pray for you.  Some wives can not even buy ordinary Maggi unless the husband is back home to give them money. 

Marriage is for mature singles, and one of the characteristics of maturity is to be spiritually, mentally, emotionally and FINANCIALLY stable.  Marriage is not for lazy people and success is not streamlined to a particular gender, you can be successful as a woman too.

Find your purpose and fulfill it, don't be a waste to this generation.  Get a Job or better still get a skill that will make you an employer of labour.  Check out the Virtuous woman in Proverbs31:16-18."She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earnings she plants a Vineyard.  She is energetic and strong, a hard worker".   

 There is this general saying that behind a successful man there is a woman, which is true but you hardly hear the the woman's name.  How many knows they name of Mark Zuckerberg's wife?  How many knows the name of Dangote's wife? Or the name of Bill Gate's wife. Even though the man and woman are joined together to become one flesh, that doesn't mean if they want to announce the richest person on earth they will call Mr and Mrs Bill Gates, even though Gates wife is equally successful,she is the co-founder of Bills and Melinda Gate foundation. 

 Genesis1:28 says"And God blessed THEM, and God said unto THEM, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth."  

'Them' in this bible verse means both man and woman, and when God said be fruitful and multiply he wasn't talking about child bearing alone he was talking about being successful and fruitful,maximizing your God given potential.  

We have alot of successful women in the world, the likes of Angela Markel Chancellor of Germany, Mary Barra CEO of general motors, Folorunsho Alakija the Nigeria business tycoon and successful women in ministry like Joyce Meyer and the likes.

 P.S: Men please don't be intimidated by your wives/fiancée success, rather support and encourage them. And the fact that she is buoyant financially doesn't mean she should be the financial head of the home, don't be slack in your responsibility. Be the head God has called you to be. 

 Shalom! 


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Princess Janet is an aspiring marriage counselor, relationship coach, inspirational writer, story writer, blogger, teacher of the word of God, a petroleum geoscientist by profession, a researcher and lecturer in one of the foremost institution in Nigeria. She is also the author of the novel called Jasmine that have inspired many people across the country.
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