Dear Virgin
Dear Virgin
Sexual Purity
Princess Janet
It is good that you are a Virgin and that you were disciplined enough to say No to sex before marriage, I really commend you and am sure God is happy with you. But to think because you are a Virgin then others who aren't are less human or inferior is outright nonsense. To be a Virgin is one thing, to be sexually pure is another thing and to be a Virgin, sexually pure with Godly character is the utmost.  

You feel so proud and pompous because you are a Virgin and you have told yourself that you won't marry anyone unless he/she is a Virgin too. This is a rule that may lead you into trouble. For there are many who will lie to you and fake their virginity, for there are many virgins who are lesbians , some virgins are not even born again they just happened to be a Virgin because they are moralist.

 This post is not to discourage virginity in any way, because virginity is good and its advantage is numerous. But to base your marital choice on whether he/she is a Virgin is on called for. For Every sinner has a past and a glorious future in Christ. Many lost their virginity not because they were wayward, some lost it as a child even before they could know the meaning and important of virginity, some were abused as a child, some were raped as a teenager and some even gave it away with a price (prostitutes). 

Whatever the case may be, once he or she is a believer, then he/she is a clean and new person before God, and hence a regenerated Virgin.  Then who are you to call someone that is clean unclean, who are you to judge anyone based on their past.  God used Virgin Mary in the bible the same way he used Harlot Rahab, both were women in the earthly lineage of Christ Jesus.  

So instead of focusing on whether he/she is a Virgin or not, focus on whether he/she is regenerated, focus on whether he/she is God's will for you, focus on what God is saying. Stop majoring on the minor (virginity) while minoring on the major (God's will).  So drop that 'virginity pride' now before it drops you into a miserable marriage, for virginity is not a criteria for a successful marriage. 

Shalom!!!
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Princess Janet is an aspiring marriage counselor, relationship coach, inspirational writer, story writer, blogger, teacher of the word of God, a petroleum geoscientist by profession, a researcher and lecturer in one of the foremost institution in Nigeria. She is also the author of the novel called Jasmine that have inspired many people across the country.
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