Communication in Relationship
Communication in Relationship
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Princess Janet
No form of relationship will survive without healthy communication, be it husband and wife relationship, father and son relationship or boss and staff relationship. 

And if you don't learn to communicate properly in your courtship now, then it may be difficult to communicate properly when you are married. I know some religious bigots will say communication or no communication a relationship will work of God is involved. I know some will say calling your fiancee is a sin, if you are one of those people just Waka pass this post is not for you... 

 God has a part to play in every area of our lives especially marriage and we also have our own part to play. Failure to play our part is failure itself.  

Communication is so important that our relationship with God will not grow unless we communicate with him through praying and reading his word. So if a divine relationship cannot survive without healthy communication then that means communication is very important.  According to the Merriam  Webster dictionary  Communication the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to express or exchange information or to express your ideas, thoughts, feelings, etc., to someone else.

One of the reasons for problems in relationships and marriages is lack of healthy communication. Many confuse communication with argument, nagging, and complain, but they are not proper way to communicate in a relationship, communication is mutual and it involves expressing your thoughts and feelings.  So if your partner offends you, instead of keeping mute and frowning your face up and expecting he/she to read your mind, it is better you sit them down and communicate your thoughts to them. 

But is communication all about spoken words?, the definition of communication says we can use signs and behavior to express our thoughts. This means that without saying a word you should be able to know when your partner is angry with you or when your partner is not in a good mood. Study your partner to the extent that you can tell if something is wrong with them or not. People communicate in different style so study your partner's communication style, don't expect them to communicate in the same way you do.

 If you are in a long distance relationship or marriage, you need to communicate more and design a communication plan that will make your relationship grow. Call ,text or chat often and visit each other often.  Some people only talk without communicating; they speak without listening to their other partner. 

This may be common to some temperament especially the extrovert, who are very outspoken.  So don’t just speak, wait and listen too. Don't just communicate with your behavior or signs, speak with words too.  For Without communication your relationship will suffer a catastrophic death.
 
Shalom!!!
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Princess Janet
Princess Janet is an aspiring marriage counselor, relationship coach, inspirational writer, story writer, blogger, teacher of the word of God, a petroleum geoscientist by profession, a researcher and lecturer in one of the foremost institution in Nigeria. She is also the author of the novel called Jasmine that have inspired many people across the country.
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