Break Up
Break Up
Relationship
Princess Janet
Break up ain't easy, it can be painful but it is necessary (or perhaps compulsory) under the following conditions. Break up if you are in a relationship with an unbeliever. An unbeliever can be that brother/sister in your church. 

That he is a worker at the church doesn't necessarily mean he/she is a child of God,many attend church everyday yet they haven't met Christ. By their fruits you will know them. 2Corin6:14" Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what  communion hath light with darkness? 

Break up when he/she demands for sex as a proof of your love. Premarital sex is a sin against God and your body. Flee from anyone that can make you fall prey of fornication. 1Corin6:18"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

Break up when he/she thinks sex is a sin but the likes of kissing and romance isn't too bad. 1 1Thess 5:22'Abstain from all appearance of evil'. Break up when he/she doesn't draw you closer to God. Infact since you two met you have noticed the lack of appetite for the word of God, your spiritual life has been stagnant or reduced, you need to break up. A relationship that doesn't draws you closer to God will destroy you.

 Break up if he slaps you occasionally when you piss him off. A real man doesn't display his authority by beating a woman. He will not just slap you when he marries you,he will turn you into a punching bag. Quit that relationship even if he begs you after beating you with roses and chocolate, you are far more precious to be treated like a trash.

 Break up when you lack peace in that relationship. Peace of mind is one of the ways of knowing God's will. There is no fear in love.  Break up if you don't know where that relationship is leading to. The main purpose of every Relationship should be marriage, or else it will be a waste of time. Break up if the relationship is one sided, you are the only one who do the calling, texting, visiting and so on. 

A relationship should be mutual, two people who are working together to make it work.Amos3:3 can two walk together except they agree? There are many red flags like this that people notice in their relationship and yet they refuse to let go, because of the following reasons loneliness(you can be married and still feel very lonely, and this is even more painful)

Because they are afraid they are getting old and no one will want them(age is just a number, that you are getting old doesn't mean you should settle for less when God have the best for you.Just trust God)

Because of what people will say(care less about what people will say they are not the one that will live your life for you) Because they believe they are can change their partner with time.(it is only the holy spirit that can change a person)
 
Note: Don't take chances, marriage is not trial and error their is no room for divorce. Once you are married, it is till death do you part. The pain of break ups is negligible to the pain of marrying the wrong person. 
Do the needful now when you can. I pray God gives us the wisdom to make right decisions. 

 Shalom!!!

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Princess Janet
Princess Janet is an aspiring marriage counselor, relationship coach, inspirational writer, story writer, blogger, teacher of the word of God, a petroleum geoscientist by profession, a researcher and lecturer in one of the foremost institution in Nigeria. She is also the author of the novel called Jasmine that have inspired many people across the country.
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